Nice Guys Finish Last
Ever wondered why people often say "Nice Guys Finish Last"?
I mean, wouldn't your left brain logic tell you that women
should want a nice guy because he is "just so nice". And isn't
it so interesting that when you ask a women what she wants in a
man she always says something like "oh he's got to be nice".
But do you notice something?
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Nice guys
don't get the girls.
The bad guys and jerks always do.
So how can this be? Are women seriously that
brain dead to realize that nice guys are better
for them in the long run?
Perhaps no... not after reading this
article.
But to start off with starts look at the
typical mistakes that nice guys make.
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7 Reasons Why Nice Guys Finish
Last
- they are too needy and nice - they
always call up to check if the girl is ok. They are always
there for them, no matter what happens, as long as she
calls. He will be there. He then ends up to the backup for
when she can't get a date with the guy she is really
interested in.
- they have unrealistic expectations -
the nice guy believes so long he is nice to her, eventually
she will turn around and see the light and magically fall
in love with him.
- he puts her on a pedestal - the nice
guy always seems to idolize the women that he is trying to
impress. It is as if he cannot seem to try any harder to
make her like him.
- making his happiness and entire life revolve
around the dependence on his relationship with the
women - this is another way of coming off as way
too needy and spineless.
- he does not initiate touch - when he
is out with a woman, he will not touch her in any other way
unless it is required. Even if he does touch her he makes
it very formal and "nice"
- he asks for permission - he is always
seeking permission to do things for her, for example "may I
buy you a drink", "may I open the door for you"... only
people who are unsure of themselves keep asking these
questions.
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he acts as if he cares too much - by
caring too much on the outcome of the relationship the
nice guy is unable to demonstrate what kind of person
he really is. Then he is left wondering why no
understands him.
I hope after seeing this long list of reasons as to the
typical mistakes that a nice guys make, you will see why nice
guys finish last.
It is simple because each and everyone of the points listed
above demonstrate to the women that he is a lower status male.
He shows her that he needs to have her. He shows her that he
cannot have fun without her. He shows her that he is not the
alpha male, because he always is around to please. He will
never be her number one priority because he is always there and
happy to be number 10 on her list!
Nice guys simply do not bring FUN and EXCITEMENT into the life
of the women he is trying to pursue. That is what women desire!
Sure, nice guys posses all the other elements that left brain
logical male assumes that women would be attracted to, such as
stability, commitment and "niceness". But that is not what
attracts women.
To be attractive around women, you need to be daring, fun and
exciting. You need to get her emotions going up and down. You
need to be able playfully touch her. Then finally, he needs to
seduce her. That is the realm where no nice guy ends up, but
always wonders why. Well I hope after reading this article you
will also know why.
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