It is always every man’s wishes to get the woman of his dream. It does not matter whether the guy in question is a player or not. Many men have therefore defined new ways of acting cool among ladies and it is proving hard to distinguish a player from a group men. In this article we will be looking at various ways on how men can avoid being seen as a player around women.
First at foremost, women can easily detect a player by the way he acts. For instance how does he sit? Does he sit facing the lady before him, or does he face the other side even when in a group. Most players normally sit facing the entrance. This makes it very easy for them to identify the next prey or give them an easy way to walk out in case one of the old flames comes in. Men are therefore advised to concentrate on their dates at that particular time, even women the women are there in magnitude. This will make it very hard to detect whether he is player or not.
It is always advisable to avoid at all cost speaking smoothly to ladies. This is a good sign that one is a player. By this I mean, a guy should never be too charming and maintain long eye contact. It is believed that, most players use this trick to lure women into their charms. They do this even without knowing the woman in question very well. Players tend to behave as calm before the ladies. This is a sign that he does this to each and every women. Therefore, men are advised to act normal before ladies, and they will get to believe the guy in question is not a player.
Be free and introduce the lady as your girlfriend. We all know that players do not like to be ‘caged’ in one place. Be a little different; introduce the lady to other women as your girlfriend. This is just to avoid them finding who you truly are. Most players would rather remain single that be committed to one person. Behave like a gentleman, but stop roving your eyes around. Another important thing one opts to do is to pay much attention to the ladies. Most player would rather talk too much about themselves what they like and the likes. To avoid this, give the ladies a chance to express themselves. But, take note, not to agree with everything the women say. This is one way of identifying a player. He will agree with everything said, since he was not listening at the first place. For example one woman might say ‘I want two kids’, the other three kids, a player will tend to agree with both of them. It is important to remain calm and speak when instructed to do so.
Another thing men should avoid when in company of ladies is to avoid touching them, in a suggestive ways. This is like a trade mark to players. Avoid getting so close to the ladies, and maintain the calms. Stop playing with the glass in front of you or even your hair. No woman will take you seriously. This is a good sign that one is player, and he seems interested in not only one lady, but a good number of them.
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