They say that even the sharpest minds on the planet have difficulties figuring out what ladies really want but it takes a bit of skill and charm to be successful with them.

Are you wondering how to pull women? Sit down and relax. Specific techniques have proved to be efficient. Still, understand the fact that each girl is different and highly unique. Trying to succeed using the same strategy over and over again is simply going to get you rejected.

Practice Makes Perfect

Just like with any other skill, you will have to practice in order to become better at the art of approaching women in a successful way.

Many men experience failure simply because they are too shy or worried about their performance. The more you try it, the better you will become at it.

Go out for a ‘practice session.’ Talking to different girls, especially if you have no romantic interest in them will help you understand the female psychology better. Each time you do it, you will learn something new and useful.

Talking to strangers will also help you overcome the natural nervousness that most people experience when approaching somebody. There is nothing wrong with being nervous but it will minimize your chances of success tremendously. You want to stay away from the loser stereotype and to do it, you need to feel confident and you need to have a lot of fun when trying to pull a girl.

Keep Her Interested

Getting her to pay attention to you is one thing, keeping her interested is a whole new story. In fact, you will have to work extra-hard in order to maintain her interest over the long term.

Hold your strong cards in your hands. Laying it all on the table at ones will leave you with nothing surprising. You know your strengths. Present them gradually. Tell her something interesting that will get her to respond and stop there. Continuing along the same line will soon deprive you of anything fun and exciting to say.

Teasing is very important. Maintain an aura of mystery. Most women find that sexy and they will be willing to learn more about you.

Body Language – What on Earth is It?

You have certainly heard about body language but you are probably finding it very difficult to use it in the right way. The task becomes even more challenging when you are simultaneously trying to come up with something witty to say.

Body language is an important part of learning how to pull women. Ladies are exceptionally good at reading the indirect signs. Body language will either help you establish the chemistry or it will lead you to complete fiasco.

You are interested in her. That is great! The first thing I would do if I were in your shoes is to establish eye contact. It demonstrates your intentions. Refrain from staring at her like she is from another planet. Glance in her direction every now and then. Smile. Is she smiling back? This is an invitation that you should make use of.

The way you walk, the manner in which you talk and the way in which you use your arms during a conversation will all help her decide whether she is interested in you. Your body language has to be casual, masculine and relaxed. Signs of nervousness will turn her off, no matter how good you are at holding a conversation.

Go Easy on Compliments

Telling her that she is beautiful is ok. Believe me, women love to hear flattering things. Still, you should learn how to use compliments sparingly.

Hold a normal conversation. Tell her how witty she is after she has shared a joke. This is the best way to go. Showering her with compliments and looking at her as if she is a creature that came down from heaven will make her lose the interest really fast.

Your compliments should also be witty and relevant. A cheesy line that you have taken out of movie will simply make her laugh. Most times, the laugh will not be happening in a good way either.

Learning how to pull women is an art. It involves strategic thinking, planning and awareness. Understand your own behavior and learn from the mistakes you made in the past. Being successful with women involves a lot of personality. Learn how to have it and how to show it.

Qualities of bad boys:

Bad boys are usually very aggressive and rebellious in nature. But this character of being defiant has a good and bad aspect. Though being rebellious is not a good thing but it is seen that people who are mutinous are also confident. They do not care about anything. They do what they feel like. They are very stubborn, too. So, if they try using their stubbornness in achieving something in life they tend to be very successful, no doubt about it. This quality of being strong headed and stubborn draws girls towards them like moths to light. That’s why they know how to attract women.

Why women like bad boys:

People who are very aggressive, stubborn and rebellious are the ones who are masculine in appearance. And it is all about physical attraction at a young age. So, it is not surprising that the girls get attracted towards such bad boys. Another characteristic of such people is that they seem mysterious and love challenges. This attitude of theirs provides a sense of security to a woman to some extent.

Such stubborn bad guys give a feeling of power to women. Also, such rebellious people definitely know how to impress a woman with their talks. Of course they are very masculine to look at; they are indifferent, confident, daring and easy going about things. Such qualities obviously attract a woman’s attention so that she wants to get to know them better.

Young girls get attracted towards bad guys:

Usually you will find teenage girls going out with bad guys. At a young age, a girl gets tempted towards bad things. Not only girls, even the guys want to try all those things that society forbids. And of course there is lot of influence of movie stars and the latest movies. Young girls are fashion conscious and are flattered when the guys are ready to spend money on them. The young boys who are affluent are usually the spoiled ones. They have money power that they love to flaunt. They own bikes and cars as well as expensive handsets and have enough money to take girl shopping and entertain her in the best nightclubs and restaurants. All this attracts the young girls towards the bad guys, not realising that they could get into trouble later.

Women find confidence attractive more than anything else in the world. They also find success attractive because it alludes to the fact that you are a confident person who can fend for himself. A woman finds a man who doesn’t ask for favor or hand outs attractive. Basically, you have to be your own man for a woman to find you attractive.

Women are a mysterious breed and it is pretty hard to know what they find attractive. Put yourselves in their place for a second. It seems that they really aren’t that much of a mystery because they are just human. They think like you and I. They are just women and we are men.

They find the same things attractive that we find attractive. For instance, we like girls who take care of themselves and who aren’t afraid to engage in conversation. Girls find this attractive in men, too. They want a man who keeps himself well kept and who isn’t afraid to voice his opinion.

There are a lot of things that can make you seem attractive. Finding the right cologne can make a world of difference in how a woman perceives you. Also, a wardrobe makes you either attractive or unattractive to a woman.

It’s All About You

If you want to be superiorly attractive to a woman, find out her taste in men’s clothing. Ask her what she things men look good in. Ask her how she likes their hair done. You can do this without coming off as a total bitch if you do it in the right way. Ask her cleverly what kind of hair she would rather grab onto while you go down on her. Make her laugh. Turn her on. A man that can turn a woman on is attractive.

Let her know this isn’t your first time around the track. Don’t brag about the amount of women you have been with and how attractive they found you, but tell stories about yourself. Don’t show scars either. I don’t know where the scary story thing came from, but many women find scars unattractive. A big nasty scar will end a night right away. Don’t be confused if you never see her again after you show her a nasty ass scar that you got from a fight between you and one of your friends.

Obviously, like men, women find attractive men attractive. That is, men with good looks. Let’s face it though, not everyone is naturally handsome and well endowed. There are things you can do to yourself, though, to look the best you possibly can. Like I said earlier, invest in a good wardrobe that is modern and stylish and get an expensive haircut. Lavish a woman with gifts that will make her moan and ooh and ah. Don’t buy her affection, but show her that you want her affection.

More than anything, women find a man attractive who can perform well in the sack. Are you a little rusty? Get with some women who you don’t care much about. Yes, use them for practice. And don’t feel bad about it. Treat them well, of course, but just remember that you are conditioning for girls who are hot and for girls who you find attractive. If you aren’t good in the sack you can actually hire girls who can teach you the ways. Or you can watch some pornos and see which moves are fresh.

Porn helps a lot of men in the sack as it shows many different sexual positions that you can use to stimulate a girl and pleasure her. Don’t be afraid to go to a triple X site and see what moves are the latest and the freshest and the sexiest. Girls will love you for this. They like to be properly handled in bed and nothing more can make them find you more attractive. How you handle them in bed is very important and can make or break the deal. Have confidence outside and inside of the bedroom and you will be on your way to finding an attractive girl who also finds you attractive.

I have a lot of archives of information to choose from. I think the easiest way to go about this is to break some questions down into different sections. I’ll present the most popular questions and then I will answer them to the best of my ability.

Why do you want to listen to me? Because I am a master at doing what I do – picking up girls. I hook up with a different girl every weekend. It’s not hard to do. It is an art though and the more you practice, the better you get. You just have to remember to play it cool and never get too excited. Save your excitement for the bedroom after you’re already in bed with her. Then you can let yourself hang out, literally. Listen to me and you’ll go far. Pretty soon, you won’t have to read articles like this because you’ll be a master in the art of picking up women.

What do I do if She’s With a Group of Friends?

Yes, this is a good question because the question presents a dangerous situation. It’s hard to act yourself when you are in the presence of one girl, let alone a bunch of girls I imagine. I can only imagine because I always act myself. I have game and I don’t get nervous. (You want to be like me…yes, you do). You don’t want to approach a girl when she is with a bunch of her friends.

You want to wait until she walks away from the group to go to the bathroom or get a drink or something. It goes without saying, don’t follow her into the bathroom. Try to meet up with her on the path from the bathroom to her friends when she walks out. You may feel a little creepy, but don’t. You’re just a man with a mission. Never give up. Never surrender.

She’s Just Too Hot For Me

This is when you have to act like a super version of yourself that is not really yourself at all. You’re going to have to act confident and like you are the shit even though you aren’t.

You’re probably not as bad-ass as me, but that’s okay. People like you still get laid. Just listen to me. You’re just as attractive as her. Think this and know it and live it. She just thinks she’s hot, she doesn’t know she is hot.

When you approach her, pay her attention but don’t pay her much. This is a hard art to conquer, but it is possible. It just takes practice. It’s like riding a bike. You can’t go from not riding a bike to riding a two wheeler. You have to get training wheels first. Make alcohol your training wheels.

Get a little buzzed up before you go up to her and you won’t be as nervous. You got to have motivation and confidence man. And alcohol can give you a fake supply of it. It’s fake, but it appears to be real, because, chances are, she’s equally as intoxicated as you. Girls get horny when you drink so your chances are that much the better.

How Do I Seal the Deal?

You just have to wait until the time is right. Usually the girl will say, “So do you want to go back to my house for a drink or something?” This is when you hide your excitement and nod your head and look her in the eye like you know you are going to have her that night. Just keep talking to her and acting confident and it will happen naturally.

Just quit worrying, fool. Just go with the flow. You need to be a hedonist every once in a while and just do things that make you feel good and ready and able. You need to let your manly ambitions out every once in a while and you have to let your ego loose. There is nothing wrong with this and you don’t have to feel guilty about feeling like a douche bag. Girls who like to get laid like this attitude and you will find them coming to you and begging you like they beg for me.

So, it’s not just about what you say. It’s about how you say it. You want to say it with pride. You want to have all the confidence in the world and you don’t want to question yourself while you are speaking. No back tracking. No apologies. No retreat.

Think about this: when you talk a girl is not seeing your words; she is seeing you. That is why it is about how and not what. She looks at your lips and your eyes. If your eyes look nervous or unsure, she won’t believe in what you are saying. Again, you could have the best one liners or pick up lines in the world, but they will be to no avail if you don’t believe in what you’re saying.

Also, you have to be interested in the girl you are talking to. Don’t spit game to her just because there is no one else around. Trust me, there is someone else. Don’t give up. Find some girl you are honestly attracted to and can act sincere with when you converse with her. Find a girl who you can spit words to full of passion. You don’t want to spit out empty words.

The Lines

The lines are a bad idea. You don’t want to go on the internet and look up one liners. You don’t want to type into Google, “What to say to a girl to get her into bed.”

Girls like men who speak their minds. Sure, sometimes it is funny for a girl to listen to you spit common one liners, but it will not get you into the sack. It will not get you her phone number and it will not get you any favors. She will get a laugh and you will get your own empty bed to yourself. This may sound a little gay, but you want to speak from the heart when you talk to a girl. It’s true.

That is how you will get women. When you let your own original personality show itself through the words you naturally choose to say. You don’t want to sound practiced and rehearsed. You want to sound natural. Sounding natural refers to a lot of things on a subconscious level. Maybe it means you are naturally a good lay or have naturally good genes. The subconscious is a special thing.

Regardless of what your friends say, don’t let them influence you and always say to a girl what you think is right, not what your friends think is right. Usually, they are just out for themselves and want the girl for themselves. They’re going to tell you to tell a girl things that will make her not become interested in you. Don’t give into their wishes and satisfy them.

You don’t want to see the girl who you are eyeing up going home with your friend. She’s going home with you. And you better make sure this happens because if she goes home with someone else you are going to have a sick feeling in your stomach. You probably won’t sleep that night and you will just stay up into the wee hours of the morning eating pizza after pizza and getting fatter and fatter.

There are no lines that are proven to work because, again, it’s all about delivery when saying things to a girl. The best lines can sound empty if you don’t truly believe in what you are saying. Sounding rehearsed is the biggest turn off to a girl. It will make the girl look at you like a big cute joke who has to desperately try to get a girl into the sack. Girls like to relax and they like to talk to men who are relaxed, not only in their manner but within themselves. They like confidence, so spit lines you are confident in.

Some men find it suitable to feign confidence to get girls, but this is not necessarily effective. If the girl you are trying to get is smart and assertive, she will be able to point out if you are naturally confident or just feigning confidence. And, trust me, if she is vocal, it will be embarrassing when she calls you out for being a fraud. You better hope she doesn’t laugh in your face.

So, to get a girl to like you, you kind of have to know who the girl is, what she likes and how she acts. If she’s an easygoing person and very relaxed and acceptable of people, you’re going to want to act your genuine self. You’re not going to want to force anything. Girls who are like this will be able to tell you are not acting yourself and it will turn them off.

These are the special girls – girls you want to start a relationship with. If you want some kind of future with the girl who you want to like you, show her the true side of yourself and don’t put on any acts. This will help you in the future because it will save you a lot of explaining. You won’t have to admit to her that you are not really that confident of yourself. Basically, you’ll have to tell her that you are not the person she initially came to like. This will disappoint her and possibly end things between the two of you.

When Do I Fake Confidence if I’m Not Confident?

You’re going to want to do this if you are dealing with a girl who is very confident of herself and if she is a girl who is very prude. Prude girls often have a shell around them and it is a shell that can only be broken with an unnatural amount of confidence. I’m not saying you necessarily have to not act yourself, but you do have to add to yourself some confidence.

Stand straighter, talk firmer and with more conviction. Do things like this. Don’t be afraid to voice your opinion and never second guess yourself. This may take some practice as a lot of people don’t naturally act this way. Its’ a good way to get women to like you and break that shell that makes them proud.

If you are looking to get a woman to like you for just one night, you definitely want to add some confidence to your original self. A lot of pretty girls go for men who are just as confident as themselves. Pretty girls are usually confident because of their looks so it will benefit you to match their level of confidence. See what I’m saying. It’s all about balancing both sides of the equation.

Only you are the one who has to conform to her level. She doesn’t have to conform to yours. She is comfortable. She has a lot of men to choose from. You, however, don’t have the swag it takes to have many women to choose from if you are reading this article and learning how you can feign confidence.

How Do I Act Confident

Like I said earlier, speak with conviction and never stutter or second guess yourself. You have to keep telling yourself that you are the shit and that you are the only guy in the room that she wants. You have to look her in the eye and always maintain eye contact.

Don’t give her too much attention though. What I mean is, don’t act desperate. Don’t make it appear like she is your only hope for a lay that night. Act like she is acting and maybe you will connect. It seems all girls are confident. It’s not that much different for us. We just have to match that level. If she starts to lose interest in you, switch things up. Do something crazy and unexpected, yet something tasteful.

It’s not that hard to get “yes” for an answer if you have confidence in yourself and your words. You are your own worst enemy when asking a girl out. You are the only one who can mess it up.

If the girl is single and on the market, she is ripe for the taking. She wants to say yes. You just can’t give her a reason for her to say no. Think of yourself starting out on a clean slate. Whatever you say is what alters her decision, so only say good things – things she wants to hear. Give her compliments and always maintain a positive attitude.

How to Approach Her

It’s best to ask a girl out in person and when you are not with a lot of your friends. You won’t have your friends giving you shit and making gestures at you while you ask the girl out. This is a factor that can make your attempt a success or a failure.

The less people that are around the greater chance of success you have. The girl won’t feel pressured to say yes or no and you won’t feel anxious. It’s also better to establish a connection with the girl before you ask her out and this is easiest done when you are alone together.

Crowds just lead to complication. That is one thing you don’t want when you’re asking a girl out – complication. Complication is confusing and leads to convoluted replies from women that otherwise mean “no.” Don’t think that your friends will better your chances of her saying yes” because they won’t. You may feel comfortable at first because you are in the presence of people you hang out with everyday, but you will not benefit from it. Girls like to be asked in person in private. They don’t like to be asked when there is surrounding chaos. They like sincerity.

Do Not Use the Social Network or Texting

If you find yourself thinking about doing either of these, STOP. This will ruin your chances and will make you look like a fool and a coward. I won’t lie to you. I have done this before. That is why I am telling you now not to do it. Actually, the girl did say yes, but the relationship wasn’t prosperous. It was actually kind of awkward and uncomfortable. Asking in person could have made a world of difference. Our first special encounter – the asking out process – wasn’t legitimate and, in turn, the ensuing relationship wasn’t legitimate. Maybe I am taking this a bit far, but that is how it felt. What really matters, though, is that it didn’t work out.

Don’t tweet, Facebook or text a question to a girl regarding a date. It is cheap and classless. There is no hope in the social network when it comes to dating. I know this is a technologically advancing society, but some things are better left formal – things like dating and what leads up to the dating experience. Spoken words are important and I think a lot of times people forget that. You need to remember it though. If you remember it, you will benefit by hearing “yes” more often than “no.” Like I said at the beginning of this article, it all depends on you.

The girl wants to be asked out. She just doesn’t want to be asked out by a total loser. Losers are guys who use the social networking platform to ask girls out. Don’t be a loser like I was. It’s just not worth it. Bite the bullet and open your mouth and speak the words you want to speak with confidence. You will thank me because the girl will appreciate your sincerity and she will see that you are a man who truly wants to take her out. Finally, do something fun. Think of something less common than a dinner and a movie. If the girl is different, maybe laser tag or paintball is a good idea, or maybe a boat ride.

Women say they want a nice guy but they don’t actually want one who is good because they may seem too weak, they actually want a man who can be a challenge to them by being in control. This makes the women feel more attracted to them and they feel secure. The term nice guys finish last is also used when talking about various relationships and dating scenarios. Most results show that men who are ‘nice’ tend to ‘finish last’ when it comes to getting a woman to bed or to date them because not very many women could be attracted to them. However, these nice men usually attract women who want a serious and long lasting relationship as opposed to just a sexual relationship and generally don’t know how to attract women.

Nice guys are also known to finish last when it comes to a situation that involves confronting another person. There is a very very thin line between being kind and being weak and nice guys don’t seem to realize this. They thus end up finishing last when they are not able to confront another person or fight back when it gets physical. Sometimes one should defend themselves so that they don’t look vulnerable and weak, however, there are those times when the best thing is to walk away and avoid fighting if possible. Guys are required to be nice but at the same time also courageous and defend themselves when the situation demands.

The belief that nice guys finish last started from long time ago when men were taught to always be brave and never show their emotions. They were taught that it is in a man’s nature to be aggressive and never be too soft because it would be feminine to behave like that and one would never get a good love and social life because nobody would take them seriously. This was thus passed on to many generations and that is how nice guys were perceived to always be the last to finish. Men should be nice to some extent but ensure they don’t end up being predictable and boring.

Sometimes being a nice guy can be a natural character trait in which one can’t avoid. However there is nothing wrong with it but one can be able to read about how they can improve on their skills especially when it comes to women and relationships. Nice guys are known to finish last but not every time because one should be able to work their charm even though they are nice.

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What to do if you mess up during a date

Pretend you are out having coffee with a girl, then you stand up and then accidentally spill coffee on yourself. What you should do now is instead of beating yourself up over the situation, you need to poke fun at it to lighten things up. You can then look at her in a serious way and say “well, looks like now you have a permission to make a mistake. Feel free to do it anytime”. Then casually wipe off the coffee and don’t worry too much about it. Do not make too much of a fuss because if you don’t the women will not either.

What do to if she messes up during the date

Say for instance she is eating then she drops food on herself. You can either tease her mercilessly about it for a while (if she is that type of girl) and then use that as a topic to make fun of her for the rest of the night. Otherwise, you can do the reverse of what was mentioned above and say to her “Hey, that’s sweet, that means I get to also do something stupid tonight then we’ll be even!”. Remember, the key is not to take things too seriously and always be casually and light hearted.

What if she acts like a brat and disrespects you during the date

Remember, women and girls in general love to test a man. How else do they know they can trust you in times of need when you really need to be a man? So women test you by acting like a brat and disrespecting you. So what’s the best way to handle the situation? Easy, play along and be a brat back to them. Except tone it up a little bit more to see if she can handle the heat. For example, she says “oh, can you do me a favor and buy me a drink” (expecting you to be like every other guy to submit to her) you can say “sure thing” and then pretend to walk to get it then turn around and say “wait, if I buy you a drink are you going to rub my feet or give me a massage?”. When they issue a challenge to you or acts like a brat – give it back to them with interest!

What to do if you’re late

If you are late to the date, just call her up and say “hello, I’m running a bit late. I will be there real soon” then give her an honest assessment of the situation. Don’t leave her hanging. Unless you want to come off as the cool bad boy character. In that instance, call her up as well but then say “hello, I’m running a bit late, and I’ll be there in like… 3 years”. See how she responds and just tell her you are joking and then tell her not to worry and you’ll be there soon.

What do to if she’s late

If she doesn’t call you and tell you that she’s running late when you’re suppose to meet her. Do not let a women get away with it. Do not be Mr nice guy, let her know in a joking way that you don’t tolerate or appreciate that kind of behavior. When she finally shows up, just insist on her doing you a favor and start making fun of her throughout the whole night based on that favor. For example, when you do see her you can say “since you have no real excuse for being late, I get to boss you around for the rest of the day, you can start off with by buying me ice cream”. This way you set up a great frame for the rest of the date!