For the people out there who want to know how to talk to girls, this page is just for you.
Most guys out there have trouble understanding what really sets them apart from being just another guy. I don’t blame them because no one teaches you this skill!
If you think about it, what you want to talk about is what naturally interests a person.
What am I talking about?
Well, there are new blockbuster movies coming out every month, each time a new movie comes out we don’t think it’s the boring old movie do we?
However, they always talk about things that elicit a few emotions in our minds.
Movies always revolve around the supernatural, the mysterious, love, dreams and fantasies.
We never ever get sick of talking about these topics.
What we do get sick of however is asking “interview type” questions. Such as:
1. Where are you from
2. What’s your favourite color
3. What’s your favourite movie
YAWN!
How boring! But you know what? Most people talk about these things with girls and wonder why they are not building any attraction – because they are just boring!
Remember the themes that I mentioned before, you want to talk about things that the girl thinks about in relation to her deepest dreams and fantasies.
So here are some great questions that allow you to do that:
1. If money wasn’t a problem, what would you do for a living?
2. Let’s pretend you had super powers, what powers would you have and what would you use your powers for?
3. When you were a kid, what were you really scared of?
4. What did you want to be when you were young? What made you change your mind?
As you can see, these questions allow you think talk about things that make her give you an emotional response. It will be about something that she cares about! It’s not about facts and statistics, but rather about what she FEELS. That’s the point. Men like talking about facts and non fiction, but women are interested in feelings and emotions. Therefore in you really want to know how to talk to a woman, you want to ask for her OPINION and her ADVICE.
Get her to open up about interesting topics NOT related to facts and clear cut things with definite answers regarding something that is intimidate to her. If you do this, then you’ll be a stand out from the crowd. That’s how to girls.
Talking to women in different settings
This is a big problem with most men who meet the most amazing women, finally get a chance to talk to them, but then realize they don’t know what to say, because they don’t know how to talk to women.
Well, good thing I was there also.
To determine how to talk to women, you have to figure out the social environment you are in.
Scenario 1 – A very friendly social environment (mutual friend’s party or a wedding)
This is the best environment to talk to women, because you don’t really need to know how to talk to women here! Chances are they would be receptive to talking to you because you have a legitimate reason to be around so long as you are not coming off as a creepy weird guy. Good conversation topics to start off with would be something along the lines of how they know the host. It is important here that you not linger on this topic for too long, because it is boring – it simply does not build attraction, comfort or rapport. So once you have figured out that she is fine with talking to you, you can move on to flirting with women.
Scenario 2 – A social environment, but not so friendly (at a club or a bar)
This environment is where most men think they should meet women. In fact, in my experience this is the hardest place to meet quality women. But you do find a lot of attractive women in these places. Good things to talk about here are silly and outrageous things the women has experienced.
Why would this work?
Well for one, it is interesting!
Personally, I find a very useful interesting conversation starter in this situation is to simply ask her “hello there, me and my friends were talking, and we had this random question for you – what is the worst pick up line you heard?”. After you ask her that question, you will be setting up a great frame to talk to her with, because immediately the conversation would revolve around her and is about a funny experience she has encountered.
Also, from there on you can ask about other things relating to dating, relationships, seduction and pickup – all from that simple question. Now that is how to talk to women.
Once you get her interested in the topic you have provided her with, you just need to move onto start flirting with her.
Scenario 3 – A non social environment (bookshop or at the local store)
This is a hard place to talk to women. That is why you need to learn how to talk to women properly! The reason why this place is hard, is because she is not in the mood for meeting people. That is why you need to come across very casually and not seem as if you are trying to pick up on her. A good conversation topic to start off with would to stand beside her and ask her to pass over whatever item is located close to the shelf she is browsing.
The reason for this is to see if she complies, if she does, then chances are she is ok to start being spoken to. You can ask her “so do you know how to cook this thing that you just passed to me? I was just wondering what it was, as I was feeling adventurous and you seem like you know a bit about this”. Once you start the conversation, you need to quickly move the conversation to another topic to build rapport, attraction for seduction.
It is so good to have the chance to learn “how to talk with girl”, because I have no any idear before.